2017年3月11日 星期六

A Gender Transition

A Gender Transition

http://blog.feminization.us/crossdress-tips/a-gender-transition/



Are you sure?

I wish I could tell you your life will get better just after transition but that would be a lie. A lot of girls end up regretting all the changes: often times for the wrong reasons. The most important aspect of a successful transition is rebuilding an emotional infrastructure: that support group of dear friends & family that comprise of our happiness through the course of each week & year.

Will your life be better after you transition?
Fundamentally, perhaps yes. However, in terms of “quality of life” - the answer is almost always “no”. Even in the best of circumstances, you’ll face these challenges:

You’ll lose a lot of friends. Many that you retain will never enjoy the same level of intimacy as before.
You’ll face strained relationships with some family members.
You’ll live with lots of emotional scars from hurtful comments from loved ones - even strangers.
Your work & career options will be limited. You might lose your job and your ability to earn a decent living at a time when costs associated with a successful transition are straining your resources.
The process to successfully change your tender is very long, expensive & sometimes painful.

The best real-life analogy I can offer comparing what transition will & won't be?


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